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Female
Widowed
San Jose, California
Are you interested?
In their own words

Looking for my future!

Honest, upbeat, caring - interested in national and international events - I like sports, especially baseball and hockey and now basketball - enjoy concerts, movies, theater. And, now that I'm able to do so, I want to travel - want to explore Italy, and a Greek friend speaks well of the treasures of the Greek Isles - so maybe that should be my first destination. I appreciate life and the good fortune to be financially independent - I don't need someone to support me - would envision sharing financial concerns. My life is busy and enriching, and indeed, I like to have time and space to myself, but at the end of the day, I find I want more - I'm looking for a friend, a companion, a lover - a gentle, loving man who shares like attributes who wants to share a life with me - then my world will be complete.

Appearance
Best Feature
Eyes
Hair
Auburn/Red
Eyes
Green
Physique
Average
Height
5'  2"   (157 cm)
Family Roots
American
Race
White / Caucasian
My Lifestyle
Smoking
Non-Smoker
Drinking
Socially
Has Kids
Yes
Wants Kids
No
Religion
Christian
Education
Bachelor's Degree
Occupation
Entrepreneurial / Start Up
Income
$60,000 - $75,000
Exercise
Regularly
Politics
Middle Of The Road
What languages do you speak?
English
Favorite Music
Classic Rock, Dance / Electronica / House, Rock & Roll
Favorites
Favorite Athletes
Kobe Bryant - seems to have matured as a man - great player
Favorite Colors
Aqua - shades of blue-green
Favorite Drinks
White wines
Favorite Fast Foods
In and Out Burger - Wendy's
Favorite Dramas
Bourne Identity
Favorite Horror Movies
Ugh!
Favorite Action Movies
Ugh again!
Favorite News Anchor
Walter Chronkite
Favorite Place To Be Kissed
back of my neck
Favorite Politicians
Ed Rendell, Gov of PA/ Historically: Ghandi
Favorite Sports Teams
Philadelphia Flyers
Favorite Restaurants
True Italian
Favorite Sports
Hockey and Baseball
Favorite Stocks
LMT -
Favorite TV Dramas
Masterpiece Theater
Favorite TV News Sources
PBS -
Favorite Foods
Italian
Favorite Styles Of Music
50's and 60's
Interests
Basketball
enjoy live or on tv
Business Finance
I'm a moderate Demo who is a fiscal conservative - follow the market
Camping
Was a girl scout leader - need I say more? I like a nice comfortable bed away from the bugs.
Cars
get me where I need to go - drive a Prius
Children
have two - grown adults - would consider foster children though
Circus
fun
Comedy
so-so
Community Service
Absolutely -
Cooking
Do that too
Dancing
Love it
Dating
back on the market since being widowed three years ago
Dogs and Cats
like both
Drawing
my siblings got the artistic talents
Electronics
I read instructions
Exercise
walking
Food
healthy
Football
watch it on TV - Eagles fan
Gambling
nickel machines are my speed
Gardening
love it
Guns
learned how to use and was range certified - long, long ago
Live Concerts
love them - Celine Deon my current favorite
Math
At the business level -
Movies
Rediscovered this year - enjoy them
Opera
Not a lot of exposure, but love it -
Pets
just my Koi pond
Politics
Yeah, I'm there
Reading
yes - trade off serious with romance - some mysteries
Religion
to each his own -
Running
no
School
I'm one who of those life-long learning folks -
Shopping
not my bag
Singing
used to sing the masses as a kid - enjoy the guitar masses
Sky Diving
nope
Snowboarding
nope
Soccer
nope
Stock Market
Yeah - follow it - as a pensioner, it supports me
Technology
so-so, again, I read instructions
Television
Moderate
Tennis
nope
Theater
yes
Traveling
Hope to do more if and when I find a companion
Video Games
no
Walking
yes
Writing
some
Personality
Adventurousness Average
Affectionateness Average
Trustingness Very Gullible
Confidence Average
Independence Average
Mood Average
Romance Somewhat Romantic
Sociability Average
Thought Process Very Analytical
Tolerance Compliant
Lifestyle
Dress Average
Energy Very High
Go Party Sometimes
Religion Average
Neatness Somewhat Neat
Punctuality Often Late
Spending Somewhat Thrifty
Work Ethic Workaholic
Insights
Describe the perfect evening.
Dinner and conversation - prepared together at home or at a nice restaurant - a weekend in Santa Barbara, a B and B in Napa, Mendocino, a show in Vegas -
How many kids would you like to have?
not applicable
How important is someone's physical appearance to you?
my height
If you could have one super power, what would it be and why?
make certain that every child had access to good health care, a loving home environment, and a guaranteed education - K-12 and whatever technical school or college program he or she chooses - empowering a fully literate population will create the socio-econominc environment that will help overcome joblessness and homelessness.
What do your friends tease you about the most?
level of seriousness -
What gets on your nerves?
people who prattle on about unimportant things - folks who get so absorbed in material things, they can't or won't see what the world is really about - other people!
What is the most important thing in a relationship?
Honesty, trust, mutual respect and caring
What turns you off?
Absorption with Self - tendency toward materialistic interests - short sightedness about people, places and things, and an inability to see the lone tree beyond the forest. I am that lone tree - I tend to think outside the box, and having worked as an analyst for most of my career, I tend to look for mitigations for problems. Result is that I get short tempered when people whine about situations without looking to see what can be done to effect change.
What turns you on?
Personality - confidence without conceit, a genial personality and a happy outlook on life
What do you hope to be doing five years from now?
Though I haven't truly defined it, my general plan is to find an agreeable, loving companion who wants to comingle our mutual worlds - to travel, hoping to spend our "twilight years" peacefully - content in togetherness.
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