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54
Female
Divorced
Philadelphia, PA
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In their own words

Serbian-Greek and some other stuff, seeking a like-minded male in the USA.

Fairly new to the dating scene after a 20 year marriage and I've never written a self-summary but here it goes. So I am 54, have an 11 year old son with whom I love spending time with. That’s right, 11 and soon to be 12. Family is and has always been important to me. In fact, I still get along well with my ex via co-parenting and host holidays at my home where his family is welcome. I am searching for a man with similar interests to enjoy everything life has to offer. Someone with a positive outlook who doesn't dwell on the past and is willing to look towards a future. Some of my hobbies include gardening, cooking and sewing. I love to entertain friends and family and enjoy throwing dinner parties whenever I am able. I enjoy traveling abroad as well as taking quick road trips to places I've not seen in the US. I've just returned from an 8 day bike tour of Provence so I am looking for someone who is fairly active. Cruise vacations are fine as long as those I go with are willing to do those great excursions! I work out at Lifetime Fitness 4-5 times per week as well as take rides on my bike via the trails near my home. I'm very independent but do enjoy having the closeness and companionship of another. I know there was a question about an ideal date but in my honest opinion, if you are with the right person, any date can be ideal!

Appearance
Best Feature
Hair
Hair
Brown
Eyes
Hazel
Physique
A few extra pounds
Height
5'  5"   (165 cm)
Family Roots
Serbian
Race
White / Caucasian
My Lifestyle
Smoking
Non-Smoker
Drinking
Socially
Has Kids
Yes
Wants Kids
No
Religion
Spiritual
Education
Graduate Student
Occupation
Medical / Health / Fitness / Social Services
Income
Over $100,000
Exercise
Regularly
Politics
Middle Of The Road
What languages do you speak?
English, Serbian
Favorite Music
I'll tell you later, Alternative, Classic Rock, Folk, Funk, Pop, R&B / Soul
Favorites
Favorite Actors
Clive Owen, Robert Downey Jr, Robert DeNiro, Al Pacino, Robin Williams, Ryan Gosling
Favorite Actresses
Jennifer Anniston, Meryl Streep, Kate Winslet
Favorite Hangouts
When I finish my day at work, I hit a local starbucks. Other than that, no place that I, "Hangout," regularly.
Favorite Cities
Not a fan of cities but visiting Seattle, Chicago, NYC, Philly, Baltimore is fine once in a while.
Favorite Colors
Red, Black, blue
Favorite Country
USA, Serbia, Greece, England
Favorite Drinks
I live on water and coffee but will partake in beer, red wine, the occasional dirty martini. I never drink alone and don't really have to drink to have a great time!
Favorite Fast Foods
None, it's slop.
Favorite Comedies
Groundhog Day, Burn After Reading, The pickup Artist, Mean Girls, Bridget Jones Diary
Favorite Horror Movies
None but I do like thrillers.
Favorite Night Clubs
It's been a while since I've been to a real nightclub. Used to hit Philadelphia in my 20's. Love to dance!
Favorite Place To Be Kissed
Nice how this site throws this in here. Multiple areas.
Favorite Plays
Our Town,
Favorite Politicians
Are there any worthy of being admired?
Favorite Quote From A Movie
"I'm your huckleberry."
Favorite Restaurants
Family owned are usually my favs!
Favorite Songs At The Moment
Can't think of any right at this moment but I love music.
Favorite Sports
Soccer, basketball
Favorite Stocks
Tech
Favorite TV Comedies
Six Feet Under, Seinfeld, Cheers, Fraisier, Sybil, How I Met Your Mother.
Favorite TV Dramas
I've not watched any in some time. I did really like ER back in the day. Not a fan of the newer stuff.
Favorite Foods
Greek, Serbian, Italian
Favorite Styles Of Music
I like all sorts of music.
Interests
Acting
I did some school plays. :)
Animals
Yes
Antiques
Love to go antiquing. Own a few.
Art
Yes
Astrology
Entertaining. I'm a Leo.
Astronomy
Yes
Barbecues
Yes, usually at my house. Friends and family.
Bars
Not unless there is dancing and a live band or DJ.
Basketball
Yes!
Biology
Yes, always was my favorite subject.
Board Games
Yes
Business Finance
Interesting but definitely not my forte.
Camping
Yes, used to tent camp in my 20's. Now I'll take a cabin or pimped out RV. :)
Card Games
Meh
Cars
I have an electric one. Guess which one?
Children
Love them, wish I had more.
Circus
Nope.
Comedy
Yes! LOVE a good comedy act.
Community Service
Yes.
Cooking
Yes, my language of love I suppose. :) I love making a meal together!
Dancing
Love to dance!
Dating
Yes, had a few since my separation/divorce.
Dogs and Cats
Dogs, cats are OK but I'm allergic.
Drawing
Not much of an artist outside of drafting patterns for my son's halloween costumes.
Electronics
I own a lap top and have to work on another.
Exercise
Yes, love to spin, participate in group fitness classes and lift weights.
Food
Greek, Serbian, Italian
Football
Meh
Gambling
No, never understood the appeal.
Gardening
Love to garden. Flower, herb and vegetable. Is there anything better than a warm tomato off of a vine?
Guns
Not opposed to them just don't want the lunatics to have access to them.
Internet
Sure, when I have time to waste or am looking for a date?
Live Concerts
Meh, used to go a lot in my 20's. Now they are ridiculously expensive and I find wanting to use that money towards traveling.
Math
What is this question about? Love it or hate it? Good or bad at it? Comes in handy.
Medicine
Yes, love it. My field is healthcare.
Movies
Yes
Opera
Yes, not an expert but I enjoy listening.
Painting
I touchup and paint my house on occasion. Nothing artistic.
Pets
I have 2 dogs and have debated on chickens and goats. :)
Philosophy
Yes
Photography
Yes
Politics
Yes and I'll discuss them with people who can discuss them intelligently and without anger.
Psychology
Yes. LOL a huge part of my job.
Radio
Yes
Reading
Yes, when I get the time I enjoy reading.
Religion
Serbian Orthodox
Rugs
Prefer area rugs rather than wall to wall carpeting. I have a couple from Turkey.
Running
Used to but biking is my think now.
School
I liked school, loved college much better.
Shopping
Only if I need something. Not a shopper.
Singing
LOL I love singing in my car, while I'm cleaning or just out loud when I'm at the gym in my group fitness classes. LOL
Sky Diving
Never been, willing to try.
Snowboarding
No.
Soccer
Yes, coached my son's league in 2019, 2021 and 2022.
Stock Market
I don't handle that, someone else does.
Technology
Yes
Television
Reality shows are awful.
Tennis
Yes
Theater
Yes
Traveling
Yes, next trip is biking through Southern France!!!!
Video Games
No
Walking
Yes
Writing
Used to journal as a kid and teen. Not as an adult.
Personality
Adventurousness Somewhat Daring
Affectionateness Somewhat Doting
Trustingness Somewhat Gullible
Confidence Very Humble
Independence Very Independent
Mood Average
Romance Somewhat Romantic
Sociability Very Extroverted
Thought Process Very Analytical
Tolerance Very Compliant
Lifestyle
Dress Average
Energy Very High
Go Party Sometimes
Religion Average
Neatness Somewhat Neat
Punctuality Often Early
Spending Somewhat Thrifty
Work Ethic Driven
Insights
Describe the perfect evening.
Could be anything as long as I’m with someone I enjoy. :)
Describe your perfect weekend.
A weekend road trip, biking, hiking or at the beach.
Do you believe in love at first sight?
I think it happens. Has it happened to me? Nope.
How many kids would you like to have?
I only have one but wish I'd had more.
How important is someone's physical appearance to you?
A little. More to a man than his exterior.
If you could have one super power, what would it be and why?
Mind reading because there would be no second guessing.
What is the purpose of marriage?
To have and raise children..
What is the most important lesson that you've learned?
Let the small stuff go.
What do your friends like about you most?
My sense of humor and honesty. Maybe you can say I'm pretty direct? If you ask my opinion, you'll get the honest one. :)
What do your friends tease you about the most?
My energy level.
What gets on your nerves?
Rude, judgemental or impatient people.
What is the most important thing in a relationship?
Trust, honesty and respect.
What's the best age to get married?
For me? Maybe 35/36 or never. For most, 30-35.
What turns you off?
Giving me your opinion on something for which I never asked.
What turns you on?
Intelligence, a sense of humor and confidence.
What do you hope to be doing five years from now?
Opening my own practice.
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