Fairly new to the dating scene after a 20 year marriage and I've never written a self-summary but here it goes. So I am 54, have an 11 year old son with whom I love spending time with. That’s right, 11 and soon to be 12. Family is and has always been important to me. In fact, I still get along well with my ex via co-parenting and host holidays at my home where his family is welcome. I am searching for a man with similar interests to enjoy everything life has to offer. Someone with a positive outlook who doesn't dwell on the past and is willing to look towards a future. Some of my hobbies include gardening, cooking and sewing. I love to entertain friends and family and enjoy throwing dinner parties whenever I am able. I enjoy traveling abroad as well as taking quick road trips to places I've not seen in the US. I've just returned from an 8 day bike tour of Provence so I am looking for someone who is fairly active. Cruise vacations are fine as long as those I go with are willing to do those great excursions! I work out at Lifetime Fitness 4-5 times per week as well as take rides on my bike via the trails near my home. I'm very independent but do enjoy having the closeness and companionship of another. I know there was a question about an ideal date but in my honest opinion, if you are with the right person, any date can be ideal!