I don’t chase butterflies. I grow gardens

If lack of depth scares you more than distance , you're probably reading the right profile. I'm not the cup of coffee I’ll buy you on our first date. I’m the conversation that stays long after it’s gone cold. 41, with a clear mind, a present heart, and a gaze that always looks a bit deeper than the obvious. I've lived enough to know what I don’t want — and I've stayed honest enough not to pretend otherwise. I'm not looking for “my other half.” I'm not incomplete. I’m looking for someone whole — with contradictions, light and shadow — to share a horizon, not a filter. If you’re craving meaningful connection instead of disposable swipes, you can start with the first word. Or the second. Or the one you’re most afraid to say. Hearts have no maps. But if you want to find your way — you'll know where to look.