I like walking on a nature trail or along small bodies of water, with my dog. I enjoy helping others when I can, am a good listener, can laugh at myself, and try to have a good time. I've been told I take life too seriously and am a bit shy when meeting someone new. Love to cuddle next to a crackling fire, whether it be outside around a fire ring/pit or inside at a fireplace. Late spring/summer/early fall picnics are nice. Not interested in sports, but it's ok if you are. (I can always find something to keep me occupied) Understands that men need their own time, as well as women do. I'm comfortable in my own skin and always try to keep fit - gosh that's hard to do. I'm seeking a man who isn't afraid to be with a strong willed woman (not in a bad way). I'm looking for a man who wants me to be by his side, not in front of him nor behind him. He must understand that women aren't men and treats them the way they should be treated. I appreciate a man who opens doors for me and other niceties that aren't really in practice anymore. Please be a non-smoker and non/social drinker. Must love pets. Prefer someone between 45-65 (but that doesn't mean we can't talk.) Hair, mustache and beard are optional. I'm not a member :( although you can find me on this name at the Y I can read and write English, not any other language. I believe it's awesome if a person can read, write and understand more than one language - just one is hard enough to learn.