Shy and gentle

Hello, I am a gentle, kind, loyal and peaceful man looking for a kind, gentle and intelligent lady for marriage. I had a replacement heart valve fitted in November 2007 so I have a scar down my chest. I don't like bad language, bad behavior, conflict or arguments. I don't smoke or drink. I am not going to rush into anything, I will take my time. I am too old to be a dad to a new baby now, so please don't contact me if you want to have children in the future. :) I am 48, if you are a young woman or a young girl looking for a penpal, then I am not the right person for you. I am looking for someone who would like to be my wife. I am looking for someone who is close to my personality. It doesn't matter what color your hair is or how tall you are or what your weight is. Please be realistic about my age and your age:)