I'm an active guy that enjoys traveling, exercising and enjoys taking care of himself. I am pretty good at knowing what I want and what is good for me, but at the same time, I am totally open to people and experiences that are out of my expectations and I find this mind set usually brings me what is truely good for me and helps get my head out of the game. I'm looking for a girl that has a good sense of humor and does not take life too serious. I'm really not into playing games. It just wastes everybody's time. I've been divorced for over a year now and through that experience I've learned a lot about myself and about relationships in general. Communication is key. Of course,appearance is also important to some degree and physical attraction needs to be there to get the ball rolling. I'm a little on the spiritual side, so this quality in a girl would definitely help. But what is really important to me, is the connection and her openness to allow others in her space a little : ) There needs to be trust. Trust is very important to me. A girl that takes care of herself and respects her boundries also knows how to take care of others and can respect their boundries as well. That's the name of the game for me.