You're probably thinking, she's 45, never married and no kids...mmmm something is wrong with her..nothing wrong, I just wasted my time with the wrong people and I could never commit because I was looking for something that clearly doesn't exist - (My soul mate)...anyway let's get down to business. My ideal match would be someone like me, kind hearted, generous, financially secure, owns property, he must be FUN loving and EASY Going.. Control freaks need NOT apply. Gowenget! He must love fine dining and wine, enjoys entertaining in his home, travelling, he must keep fit and enjoy the outdoors. He must respect himself and others. . .He must be Hygienic! and have nice breath! Bad Breath and bad body odour is the biggest turn OFF!! AND Most of all...He must love God.