Hello (or Kali Spera) I'm a hard working family orientated guy based in South Wales. I have 3 children who are very important to me, as are the rest of my family and friends. I enjoy spending time with family and friends, and will happily help anyone in a crisis. My friends tell me that my logical approach often drives them nuts, but am useful to have around in emergencies. I guess that is why I've been in the Police service for about 7 years, and really enjoy the challenges that it brings. I'm part way through a teaching degree and hope to go into the profession within the next 2 years. I'm about to start a cookery course in Cardiff next month and whilst I dont think I'll ever be a Gordon Ramsey or Jamie Oliver, I'd like to be able to knock together some exciting meals by the end of the course. I enjoy walking in the rain if I've nowhere particular to go, and have recently discovered how awesome the stars look on a clear night. I'm happy in my own skin, and content with who and what I am - I do miss the closeness of a relationship though. I seek a relationship with a woman who has similar values to my own. I am emotionally intelligent, in touch with others feelings and my own. I'm not a grunter, and enjoy conversation about anything and everything. I am a stickler for some things - I don't smoke and couldn't be with anybody that did - I'm sorry I find the smell offensive. I don't do drugs - never fancied it. Thanks for reading my profile.