Searching for my last soul mate

This is always hard for me, I can honestly say that I'm a good kind women and love life. Just looking for someone to spend the rest of my life with. Please no domineering men or men who want to change me, or feel I should lose 20 pounds to look hotter, need not apply, if I'm not what you want then please move on to the next one, it just brings me heartache and makes me feel very selfconscious, I don't need that in my life. I just want a man who likes for the way I am and for who I am, that's not too much to ask for is it!. Every man deserves to have what they want in a women, if I'm not the one, then please keep your comments to yourself and find someone else that fits your criteria, its not nice to tell a women on the first date that she is absolutely gorgeous and hot, but would look hotter if she lost more weight, that's an insult. I want a man who has no hangups and wants to be with me because he wants to, not because he has too. Just someone who is good to me and wants me and desires me and will miss when Im not around. I judge a man by his actions, not by his words, any man can say whatever they want to you and if they don't, then I pretty much figure out whether he likes me or not, or is not what he was hoping for. I like to have fun at home or out, I love to cook and I cook very well. Well if you have any other questions, just ask me. Thanks for viewing my profile and I wish all of you the best of luck on here.