Sugar and Spice makes everything nice ;)

My family constantly jokes with me that I'm going to be the modern day spinster. I always brush them off saying that one day I will find the guy that fits right in every way. When I was younger my criteria was very simple. I just wanted to meet a guy that could make me laugh & that I could be fun/spontaneous with. Now, I have a checklist. I want a balanced guy that comes from a good family, dresses to impress, is hard-working, funny, and well educated, so that I can have intellectual conversation, but I can also act goofy around. I understand that looks aren't everything, but without attraction there can be no chemistry! I want to feel giddy with excitement and get butterflies when I see or hear from a guy. At this point in my life, I know what I'm looking for & I'm not going to settle for a guy just because he's "nice". I want a gentleman that's going to bring to the table the exact same things that I have to offer..so guys with children, criminal records, no license, no car or no place of their own need not message me. I will also decline the invitation to chat if you don't have pictures uploaded to your profile, are more than a decade older than me, or have minimal information filled out, I will pass you up. I am also not a fan of long distance relationships because in my eyes, it is very abstract. I want to be able to plan something in the spur of the moment! I don't consider my criteria to be unrealistic, but I promise that I am well worth it!!