family man - just needing the family of my own.

hey. what can i say. i guess the fact IM on here is for the same reason as many others, and that is to meet people with an open mind in hoping that sum1 sumwhere might actually surprise me and we end up more than only friends.. IM not a big party anIMal, but also enjoy the 'go out for drinks' or 'have a braai with friends' kinda thing.. IM very open and honest.. i call a spade a spade. little things in life that we most take for granted ie: nature, mean alot to me. i enjoy spending my tIMe outdoors and in this cold winter weather ud probably find me at home cooking up a storm.. my ideal match: lets see.. IM not ur average kinda guy that likes the big , small bum and stunning face.. no no, not me.. u can call me old fashioned but to me i believe its the personality that says everything about sum1.. a close second to personality would be the face hey.. nothing gets me more than a beautiful smile and having that beautiful face glow from happiness.. body wise, its not entirely a big thing for me hey.. so there u have it, basically any1 that can capture my interest, has alot of self confidence but not so much that they think they are gods gift to men, honesty is a must , loyalty too, but sum1 that can be themselves around me, laugh at my silly jokes or behaviour and would cry on my shoulder if she was upset, is the lady i could enjoy being with.