You’re a smart, intelligent woman and you’re not about to fall for any preposterous claims so here’s a refreshing perspective—the truth. I pay my mortgage. I wear socks that match. I’m an honest man, with a decent career and strong values. So while i could regale you with stories of my fishing escapades (joke! i have never been fishing in my life) or how I resemble David Schwimmer… (not a joke but still funny!) i know that good communication’s a foundation for every relationship.