Since being listed on this site, I have met exactly one person who in any way was compatible with me, and it didn't work out! I know what I want and that is a mature confident man with a love of travel and cultural events of all kinds. Great sense of humor is most important, along with intelligence. Must be emotionally available and honest about what they are looking for in a relationship, which can even be just friendship. I prefer a New Yorker of Greek background to share my love of all things Greek, especially music. I just returned from Greece.