Looking for a REAL relationship/family where we come first!

Why is it so hard to find an honest woman that keeps her promises and has her actions match? I want to experience it all with one person and create memories...be caring, compassionate, bring sunshine and energy. I give it my all and would like someone that can do that too! Everyday is an opportunity for memories! I am a person that finds a way to get it all done. Commit, Appreciate, Reciprocate, Resolve, Desire, Motivate, Inspire, Communicate, Keep Promises. I am a well balanced person, please be the same. It is a choice to take things as a negative to pick on words or tone to twist things against people or to be a positive kind loving person and have discussions and resolve problems. That is a choice. If you are unable to do this positive step you will never have success here. I like spending time with family and friends. I am not the guy that sits on the couch barking orders watching sports and I do not have to be told anything over and over. I pay attention to someone's needs and would like the same. Not materialistic, live life together happily. See the world together, road trips, exotic places, loud music, sing and dance, dates, walk and talk, watch movies and TV shows, play board games, bike ride, cocktails, good meals, cook and clean as a team, build together. I do not want an addict (makeup, nails, shopping, coffee, smoking, drinking). Anything that is a need IS AN ADDICTION and ruins people's lives! I WANT to LIVE life and appreciate each other as one.