God how I hate these sort of things. Well, I think i'm kind and thoughtful and caring with a sharp sense of humour and I know my friends know I will always be there for them. I'm the one who offers good advice and tries to keep a calm head when it's all going pear shaped. Once its sorted I then make fun of them for being idiots. Am I looking for too much in a woman? Nope I don't think so, I would just like someone who is warm with a kind heart, intelligent enough to know her own mind and stick up for her own opinions, and has a smile that will melt my heart when I see it.