I cannot write back to you if you are not a paying member as I do not pay for this site. I have tried dating sites and haven't had much luck meeting anyone with substance and values. I teach during the day so I would prefer to meet someone who also works days. In the evenings, I go to the park to walk or to Kickboxing, read, go kayaking, or just relax and watch some good tv shows. I do not tend to go to the bars much but I do like to play pool. Going to dinner or To a comedy show is a fun option. I like to take long drives and sight-see places that I've never seen. I would like someone who has similar interests.